Sunday, April 28, 2013

Their Hard Day’s Night


Their Hard Day’s Night

It only occurred to me that adult education is different than the kind of teaching that I’m used to – that is with kids.

Through a rough estimation, I can say that 45 yrs. old is the average age in our class of 10-15 students (it varies every session). These people have real jobs, with real wives and kids to support. I would assume that many of them come to the class after a day’s long work only to be bombarded by history facts. Sometimes, there is at least one student with a tire expression.

Other than having a difficulty of putting myself above the position of adults in the class, I haven’t figured out my niche as well.  Yes, I pass handouts and lead readings but other forms of helping, I don’t do. And so I just watched the class unfold with special focus on the student. I still don’t know where I stand that it’s hard to assert my helping hand.

It’s amazing. The effort that they put in the class often does not match the fatigue in their eye.  They remain attentive.  Sometimes, Martha would ask the students about their culture or personal life and the whole class would either be rocking with laughter or be sympathetic, depending on the nature of the experience being narrated. It humbles me to the ground of how much these people are trying to obtain citizenship when others take it for granted. As a student, I feel ashamed of my pathetic whinings in school and the fact that I don’t take my studies seriously sometimes.

And so for the class I just watched and handed out worksheets and smiled and laughed along with them. I don’t know but it was just me but it feels like the mood was lighter with a smiling teenager in the room. I would always have that small smile and the students would smile back. I’m not fond of smiling but they make me smile.

They really are beautiful people that humanize the immigration issue for me.